Nov 16, 2015

Compliments

Compliments, like perfume, are meant to be inhaled, not swallowed. However, false modesty can prevent us from receiving compliments properly.

Do not deny the merit.

"That was a really great somersault, DW!"
Wrong:
"Oh, no! It was terrible! Yours are MUCH better!"
Right:
"Thank you, Emily! I appreciate your coaching."

"You were awesome help at our event tonight, Arthur."
Wrong:
Awwww, you're way too kind.
Right:
Thanks, I'm happy to help.

Make the giver of the compliment, just as the giver of a gift, feel comfortable.